The Power of Positive Parent-Educator Partnerships

The Power of Building Positive Parent-Educator Partnerships

Inclusive Education

Peggy S. Bud & Tamara L. Jacobson • October 19, 2023

How to Build an Inclusive Environment and Get Buy-in 

This article provides a roadmap for building an inclusive education program, ensuring its success, and bringing all members of the Community of Practice on board.


Definition

The term inclusive education in this article refers to educating both neurotypical and neurodivergent learners in the same classroom and school, and ensuring they all have equal access to education. Successful inclusion depends on all members of the Community of Practice (COPS), namely teachers, parents, counselors, principals, psychologists, and social workers, all accepting, understanding, and addressing the differences and diversity within the classroom. The term “detracking” is sometimes used as a synonym for inclusion since it places students with mixed abilities, skills, and performance levels in the same class. 


Overview

There is a direct link between inclusivity and successful educational programming and practices. When schools and school districts ensure all students have equal access to learning opportunities and resources they are embracing and supporting inclusive education. Success depends on parents and teachers collaborating, and administrators and school board members supporting this model. It is crucial that all members of the education community are committed to building an inclusive education program and prioritizing every student’s well-being. 


Since inclusive education programs and practices originate at the district level, it is the educators’ responsibility to identify all obstacles that hinder the creation of these classrooms and school culture. It is incumbent upon all members of the community of practice to uncover obstacles that would block, prevent, or undermine inclusivity. 


A starting point is to have conversations with all stakeholders, including parents and paraprofessionals who directly support neurodivergent learners and help to implement their Individualized Education Plans (IEPs). Identifying any hurdles begins with asking questions and having deep conversations, which requires everyone to effectively communicate verbally, vocally, nonverbally, and through active listening. The next step is to collaborate and develop strategies to overcome the identified barriers. 


Communication is Key

As is true for any organization, effective communication is at the heart of building a successful inclusive education program. It requires parent-teacher collaboration and cooperation, and honest and transparent conversations. These conversations lead to identifying and addressing barriers, understanding, and considering everyone’s perspective, and openly sharing knowledge to avoid misunderstandings. 


Effective communication between parents and educators leads to strong parent-educator partnerships. The 5-C Model of Communication (Bud & Jacobson, 2022) is a theoretical framework that provides a roadmap for developing these partnerships by having meaningful conversations. The process is easy to implement and outlined in Navigating Special Education, The Power of Building Positive Parent-Educator Partnerships.


Developing and strengthening student-to-student communication is also important in building an inclusive education program. To overcome barriers, neurotypical students need to become partners in building a successful inclusive education program. It is necessary to help them understand that neurodivergent students have difficulty maintaining personal relationships, which leads to emotional struggles. We suggest educators include students in the conversations about planning and implementing inclusive education programs. It is through these ongoing conversations that everyone will learn how to ‘be inclusive’ and become allies for neurodivergent learners. 


The 5-C Communication Model teaches everyone how to have deep conversations that will lead them to being open to collaborate and cooperate. The model also provides strategies for discussing concerns and prioritizing solutions and tools on how to compromise and reach consensus when disagreements arise. A friendly and supportive learning environment will emerge when everyone is open to having meaningful dialogues. 


Coaching all members of the Community of Practice helps to avoid communication breakdowns. When neurotypical students improve their communication skills, they learn to communicate with their neurodivergent peers more effectively. Neurodivergent students may experience emotional struggles related to maintaining personal relationships and improved communication skills help to foster friendships. Everyone can flourish in an inclusive environment where teaching and learning supports students working together as allies. 


How to Begin

Introducing an inclusive education program in a school or school district begins with the superintendent meeting with all members of the community of practice. These meetings can be at varying times, in person or virtually. The purpose is to engage everyone, including students, in meaningful conversations that lead to developing a shared vision and understanding the value of perspective taking. 


The goal is for everyone to agree on what inclusive education will look like in their school or district. This requires collaboration between general and special education teachers, paraprofessionals, support staff, and other school personnel. They must all work together to create a supportive learning environment. 


Success is dependent on ongoing professional development for members of the community of practice and requires administrative support. When school leaders commit to providing training, they acknowledge the complexities of implementing a successful inclusive education program. In addition, there must be top-down support for common planning time between general and special education teachers, regular check-ins, and ongoing opportunities for collaboration between teachers and their aides. These are all crucial factors in ensuring the success of an inclusive education program. 


Parent Programming

Change is difficult. Building an inclusive education program at the school or district level must include educating parents. This is dependent upon educational leaders being honest and transparent when sharing information. Providing parents an opportunity to gain knowledge through open and authentic conversations is the best way to get their buy-in. When school districts offer a variety of informational programs on inclusive education and community-wide conferences, parents are more likely to understand its value. Scheduling sessions at various times, during AM and PM hours, helps to ensure all parents have an equal opportunity to attend. 


Conversations about the benefits of inclusive education should be started at least one year prior to making a change. These on-going conversations and information sessions help parents feel included in the decision-making and are more open to change because they understand the what, why, and how of inclusive education. 


When there is community awareness, buy-in is more likely to occur. We suggest districts initiate media campaigns, both through the local newspapers and on social media. In addition, sending newsletters to parents is an effective way to highlight the educational benefits of inclusive classrooms. Group gatherings, such as family breakfasts and potluck suppers, are social and educational and provide opportunities for parents to talk, share experiences, ask questions, and voice their concerns. 


Collaborative Teaching and Learning, An Integral Part of Inclusive Education

All students struggle emotionally. Neurodivergent students are more likely to display patterns of anger, often triggered by their life experiences and stresses. An effective strategy to overcome these pressures is encouraging students to write, share, and speak openly about being different. An inclusive environment is a safe space for these students and provides a platform for sharing their experiences and feelings. Inclusive classrooms and general and special education teachers are responsible for teaching students to understand learning differences. 


Open and honest conversations and active listening lead to effective collaboration between general and special education teachers. Since planning is critical to successful teaching and learning, there needs to be common planning time between general and special education teachers. This provides opportunities for all teachers to discuss their ideas and develop lesson plans, whether those entail creating a daily schedule or curriculum-based activities. Productive conversations are the path to cooperation and collaboration. 


 Opinions differ regarding how to teach communication skills and build an inclusive classroom. One method is through the creation of social scripts, which help neurodivergent learners have productive discussions. In addition, we suggest students become familiar with the 5-C Model of Communication. It is an effective communication tool that heightens the importance of active listening and teaches the value of perspective-taking. These are important skills that help neurotypical and neurodivergent students build relationships. 


Inclusive education is a top-down initiative. Therefore, teachers look to their administrators to ensure time for joint planning and ongoing conversations. The amount of planning time and its effectiveness depends on when it occurs and how frequently. Are teachers able to plan every lesson together? Is prep time limited to planning for larger blocks of instruction, such as units of study? “Best practice” ensures that general and special education teachers have joint weekly planning. 


Educators Role

Teachers are responsible for creating an inclusive and welcoming environment which ensures everyone's voice is valued and respected. Collaborative discussions that lead to developing a shared vision are crucial to the educational process. Empowering students by encouraging them to express their thoughts, feelings, and perspectives is also essential. 


Improving student engagement begins by fostering ongoing and transparent communication between teachers, assistants, and parents. Identifying and addressing the challenges students with special needs face is also critical to ensuring everyone receives the most appropriate and practical education. Collaboration between special and general education teachers is an essential first step. 


In addition, weekly staff and planning meetings should be a time to expand the teaching strategies of all educators. Preparation and collaboration include discussing instructional and academic aids, materials, and curriculum modifications to address the students’ IEPs. Sometimes, bringing the instructional aides into planning sessions is best practice, as they adapt the material and provide academic assistance. The question is, ‘Why are they not included in the conversation?’ The goal is for everyone to be on the same page. 


Special Education teachers are vital to the education of a neurodivergent learner. They provide support and guidance to students with special needs while allowing the general education teacher to teach the subject matter. This approach ensures every student receives a quality education with no gaps in their learning. 


Ample planning and preparation time leads to meaningful conversations regarding how to differentiate instruction to address the student’s goals and objectives. This involves identifying each student’s unique learning style and then making appropriate accommodations. It is important to note that differentiation is not just about making modifications, but rather tailoring teaching and learning to address the individual needs, interests, and strengths of the students. It addresses where instruction occurs, what is taught, and how students demonstrate learning by looking at content, process, and product, which are all essential to planning and delivering appropriate education. 


Paraprofessionals

When addressing the needs of a child, it is essential to consider the voice of all educators, including the para. Most education models have the aide spending more direct time with the student than their general education teachers. Parents often seek assistance or want to address a problem, and the only professional available is the child’s para. Paras should be knowledgeable about the child’s IEP, so they can provide information to parents and answer their questions. They also must respect the role confidentiality plays in the conversation. Problems can be solved if all community members are knowledgeable and have a voice. 



The students’ paraprofessionals need to feel included and respected in the teaching and learning process since they are valuable members of the academic community. The teacher is responsible for creating a positive and productive learning atmosphere, fostering trust, and encouraging teamwork between families and one-on-one aides. This is more likely to occur if the para feels included in the conversations, which happens when they are encouraged to ask questions and share observations and data. 


Administrators

Administrators are responsible for introducing and celebrating the benefits of an inclusive education model. This requires recognizing the importance of family involvement and managing staff culture, climate, and education. Prioritizing home-school cooperation and communication are crucial to buy-in from all members of the community of practice. Budgeting for supports like common planning time ensures general and special education teachers are on-board. 


Taking advantage of events like the Parent-Student Open School Night can be an effective way to celebrate the values of the inclusion model. Beginning each school year by highlighting an inclusive education theme and then reinforcing it throughout the year helps to reinforce the benefits of this model. Asking teachers to integrate this theme into their curriculum strengthens the message but requires providing ample time for preparation and collaboration. 


Conversations must be on-going and address parent concerns such as the value of the neurotypical students having social interactions with their neurodivergent classmates. We suggest sharing information about various education models, including inclusive education, and using data to explain the pros and cons. Once parents understand the value of the inclusive model, they are more likely to embrace and celebrate it.


Research has shown that teaching someone else can enhance your understanding of the subject matter because when you are able to explain a concept to another person, it demonstrates your own proficiency. Did you realize that when neurotypical students of all ages are in a classroom with neurodivergent learners, they can develop valuable leadership skills by assisting their peers? Did you know that this can strengthen and empower them to become leaders? Therefore, when students help their peers learn, they are reinforcing their own knowledge. 


Confidentiality 

Communication between home and school is essential for student learning. Teachers’ concerns regarding confidentiality may limit the paraprofessional's information and knowledge regarding the child and their academic, social-emotional, or behavioral needs. To avoid breakdowns regarding home-school communication, we suggest teachers include paras in conversations about students so they can effectively communicate with families. 


Sometimes, teachers are unavailable, and parents speak to a paraprofessional instead. Paras must clearly understand the role confidentiality plays in the conversation so they can freely speak to parents. It is also important that parents understand the significance of privacy, so they do not unintentionally share sensitive information. 


Inclusive Education Obstacles

  • Communication –  Only through open and honest conversations will all members of the community of practice understand the value of inclusive education. Encouraging questions, sharing best practices, and understanding everyone’s perspective will help remove this barrier. 
  • No Accessibility – True accessibility and inclusion are crucial for achieving equality among all students. The illusion of an accessible curriculum for all students does not equate to true accessibility. Similarly, the illusion of friends being there and accessible to neurodivergent students is not the same as true accessibility. To build genuine and lasting relationships between students, true accessibility must be provided to all.
  • Connection between general and special education – It is important for general education and special education teachers to work together to ensure that all students receive a quality education. The key is to include all vulnerable students in an inclusive setting and create an environment that supports equitable education for all. This begins by encouraging dialogues between all educators because their differences are also their strengths.
  • Collaboration and Cooperation –  General and special education teachers are crucial for shaping a community's educational landscape. All teachers bring different and unique skills and knowledge to the classroom. Special education teachers bring a different mindset to a learning environment because they have a better understanding of learning differences and how to differentiate instruction to address the needs of all students. 
  • Parent Involvement – Until parents of neurodivergent and neurotypical students are educated about the benefits of having an inclusive classroom, this model will not reach its fullest potential. Inclusion is only effective when both the parents’ and teacher’s perspectives are valued. 


Is Inclusive Education Always Appropriate?

The answer is ‘yes’ but… 


Inclusive education is one of many models within a school district. Inclusive education must be implemented appropriately by following best practices and techniques to be an appropriate teaching and learning model. Involving parents in conversations is crucial, as it creates a collaborative and supportive learning environment. Success and buy-in means both parents and educators feel their voices are heard and that they are included in the decision-making process. It is also crucial that the students’ needs are at the center of the conversation, to ensure inclusive education is the appropriate model. 


If your community of practice is considering implementing inclusive education or wants to build a more effective and robust program, we can help you explore your options. 


  • Start by reflecting on how Inclusive Education is implemented in your community. 
  • What are the barriers? 
  • How are they being addressed? 
  • Does everyone have a voice? 

We can be reached for a one-hour free consultation to discuss where you are in the process and how best to move forward.

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